Dating tip for teen

21-Jun-2016 05:42 by 6 Comments

Dating tip for teen

They're dramatic and not thinking clearly, so parents will close the topic before it's even explored or talked about.

If parents weren't so worried about sex and a potential slump in grades, they'd realize that dating can produce a huge enhancement to their teen's "emotional intelligence" quotient.

Who's in the group going to X's house Friday night? To keep it from being an interrogation—leading to shut down—it's good to just make it chit-chat in an effort to get the teen interested in a few topics so that they enjoy sharing.

By accident, you may hear some names that crop up more and more.

RELATED: Living with a mood swingin' tween To get any personal info on your teen's dating, it's usually helpful to have some "grapevine" info to start with, like, "I heard that you and Sarah were going out … I'd rather hear the real scoop from you than have to rely on gossip." But don't expect a big download. Just because another mom has a Chatty Cathy, that doesn't mean your Clam-up Kid is "less close" to you. Younger teens usually pursue their romantic interests via texts and third parties who scout out whether the other party is interested.

All we can do is try to strike up conversations that may give us some clues over time. Younger teens may "go out" (meaning: explore the idea of being a "couple") and break up and never even have a face-to-face conversation.

A broken heart (remember Romeo and Juliet were 14) can hurt as much, or more, than love at older ages. RELATED: When should you start talking to your kids about sex?

What should parents know about the benefits of dating?If we stay respectful and keep sniffing around the perimeter of their social worlds, we'll usually learn something of their romantic world. Teens, especially those in high school and college, may refer to "hooking up," and that term can include anything from kissing at a party to sexual intercourse. Teens deny that any coupling up is occurring so that teens can maximize their independence.Parents allow more freedom when they don't think dating or sexual interests are part of the mix.This is where the parent network can really come in handy.Parents should tune into the grapevine: Your teen may not be talking, but usually one of them is.Love To Know (LTK): What are some ways teens can approach their parents when they want to begin dating?